Saturday, October 17, 2015

How to be a "starterer" and finisher.....





What a difference a year makes! I've totally missed writing-and shame on me, for yet again, not following through on my own personal efforts. 

But, I typically find myself in the position of going really hard at whatever the task is and slowly "falling off the wagon" as life gets in the way. I swear, I totally need to project manage my own life, as I have no structure. OK, so enough with self-bashing, who am I kidding, I'm still fabulous! LOL! 

As I drove my daughter to cheer practice this morning, my mind started to wander and the thought came to me, why is so hard for me to finish what I start?? And then EUREKA, i remembered that I stubbled upon an article a few weeks ago on this very topic and since my brain never has time to slow down, I bookmarked page-so, I could, you know-(ha ha ha) go back and read it - yea, right! lol ...

Well, today, as I sat at the dance studio, I surfed the worldwide web and I managed to start 3 mental projects - and I found that my ADHD was totally getting out of hand. I'm actually laughing so hard at myself, because I:

1. Started an Application to university
2. Started purchasing airline tickets to STL for thanksgiving
3. Started looking up courses to learn more about UX/UI Design (User Experience/Interface)


NONE OF WHICH DID I ACTUALLY EXECUTE! WTH! What's wrong with me? Do I seriously have ADHD? 

See, now I totally forgot that I was telling you about the article that I found (DAMN ADHD)
Ok, so the article....The first line spoke volumes and was actually in all caps-since clearly it was very important or I needed to be hollered at.. 
"NEVER FINISHING WHAT YOU START IS MORE THAN A BAD HABIT—IT STEMS FROM FEARS AND HESITATIONS. HERE'S HOW TO GET PAST THE PROCRASTINATOR'S PARALYSIS."

And then it hit me! Like a freaking freight train....I am the biggest procrastinator EVER! 













How can I turn the procrastination into a more proactive behaviour that will achieve results?

Here are a few salient points that seemed to be very helpful are as follows (Thanks Jane Porter, Fast Company)


  • Quit getting stuck on the big picture. 
  • Working under pressure doesn’t actually produce better results.
  • Stop ruminating over the negatives. 
Source: Why you can Never Finish and how to finally change it, Jane Porter.


So, here's to me keeping up with myself and doing better! 












Twitter Delicious Facebook Digg Stumbleupon Favorites More

 
Design by Free WordPress Themes | Bloggerized by Lasantha - Premium Blogger Themes | ewa network review